Dating Tips for a Woman of Today

November 9, 2009 by  
Filed under Dating Tips For Women

No longer are the dating tips a woman relied on when preparing for and going on a date applicable. We live in a modern world with changing values and social atmosphere;  therefore, it is important to adapt so as not to be left behind. Even if you haven’t dated recently, with just a small set of updated dating tips for a woman of today, it will be much easier to smoothly make the transition into modern life.

Call Him

We have long held the notion that it was improper for a woman to call a man and that she should wait politely by the phone for him to call her. However, that’s an unfair amount of responsibility to place on a man’s shoulders. He may be just as nervous about how the woman on the other end of the line might be feeling. Take some of the pressure off of him and make the call yourself. Be a woman whose dating tips include taking initiative, being assertive, and making the first move. That is not to suggest that you should be highly aggressive but that being too timid will not get you anywhere.

If You Are Hungry, Eat!

The number one dating tip for a woman who likes food is to eat! Although svelte women are often thought of as very attractive, men don’t want to date women who can’t enjoy a good meal. Only ordering a salad or picking at your food while whining about how fat you are is not attractive to any man. Confidence and gusto for life (and food!) are more likely to win him over. In fact, knowledge of cooking may be even more attractive to a potential mate. Some women fear that cooking for a man is somehow demeaning, but in fact it shows intelligence and a skill set that he may not possess himself. These are both very empowering qualities.

Play the Field

Unless you’ve been on several dates and have defined your relationship as something other than casual, there is no reason not to accept invitations from other men as well. After all, there is no sense limiting your option in the early stages of a relationship. A dating tip for a woman who does this though is that it’s essential that you’re honest with any dates about this because lying about having other prospects means that you may not be altogether comfortable with the situation and that’s bound to cause problems down the line.

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